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Sexual Harassment & Assault at Home & Work: “I was attacked twice in three days.”

Posted on May 3, 2013 by renee
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Location: Petworth and Logan Circle; on the street and also at my place of work.
Time: Evening Rush Hour (3:30pm-7:30pm)

I was attacked twice within 3 days. On Sunday evening around 7:00 pm I was walking home from the bus stop in my neighborhood when a man started following me. He was yelling at me angrily, telling me that I better come back and that it might be worth my “money” if I did. He then he chased me to my apartment and came right up to my window, luckily I got inside. When I yelled out the window to tell him to leave me alone he got insanely angry and screamed, “Don’t you tell me what to do!” and punched my window, shattering all of the glass. This was in broad daylight in front of people sitting outside.

Then this past Tuesday, after taking Monday to recover from what had happened on Sunday, I was working at my job as a manager at a clothing store. While watching over the dressing room a man who I thought was just trying on jeans asked me to use the restroom. I noticed that he was standing in a strange way next to the dressing room curtain, and even though I told him I would show him where the bathroom was he just kept asking me more strange questions. At this point I started to become afraid. I asked him if the jeans had worked out and that’s when he turned toward me completely revealing his aroused genitals.

After my situation the previous Sunday I was beyond hysterical. Any sense of security that I had before has been completely ripped away from me and I am afraid to leave my apartment.

Obviously police reports were filed for both incidents, but that doesn’t make me feel safe to walk the streets day or night. Both incidents took place during daylight hours and in front of people. These men simply did not care. I am getting mace registered with the police department today and am thinking about leaving DC. Nobody deserves to live their life afraid.

Emphases by CASS.
Submitted 5/1/13 by “AP”

NOTE FROM CASS: If you need assistance in coping with public sexual harassment or assault, please contact the DC Rape Crisis Center (DCRCC) 24/7 crisis hotline at 202-333-RAPE (202-333-7279).


Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault?
Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.

If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system:
Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip: Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
Posted in Logan Circle, Metropolitan Police Department, Petworth/Georgia Ave, sexual assault, User submitted | Tagged dc rape crisis center, indecent exposure, Metropolitan police department, MPD, public sexual harassment, sexual assault, sexual harassment, Stalking, street harassment | 2 Replies

“I Was Forced to Take A Cab After Being Street Harassed & Followed in Chinatown.”

Posted on April 30, 2013 by renee
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Location:  5th and Mass Avenue NW, DC
Time: Night (7:30pm-12am)

I was walking from my house to the Gallery Place Metro Station. I had to stop at the corner of 5th and Mass until the light changed. A teenager (probably between the ages of 16-18) asked me if I had a dollar. I usually dont give out money on the street, well not not to younger people who dont appear to be homeless. But I happened to have 4 quarters in my jacket pocket so I did. I was on my cell phone at the time (talking to my brother) and the guy starts telling me that I have a sexy voice and he noticed that I started to get nervous so he started to get closer to me and asked me “what is wrong with me and if I’m ok” hes completely violating my space and starts to follow me.

I asked him to leave me alone and that I wasnt interested. He still follows me on his bike asking me whats wrong with me. I stayed on the phone with my brother, to feel safer and I said to my brother I should get a cab instead of going any further to the train station. The guy rode his bike on another street by then…but as soon as I hailed the cab the guy on the bike rode up to the cab and basically chased me in there and I had to get in the door before he could try to open it, he was still saying things to me.

This was around 8:20 pm, it wasnt completely dark yet and there were plenty of people outside. The cab driver noticed that the guy chased me to the cab (while still on his bike). This should not be happening.

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Emphases by CASS.
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ubmitted 4/27/13 by Anonymous


Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault?
Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.

If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system:
Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip: Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
Posted in Chinatown, Stalking, User submitted | Tagged cab, Chinatown, gallery place, Stalking, street harassment, street harassment in DC | Leave a reply

“I Was Street Harassed SEVEN Times While Walking Home From The Gym.”

Posted on April 28, 2013 by renee
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Location:  Belcrest Rd, Maryland
Time: Evening Rush Hour (3:30pm-7:30pm)

Within a half mile walk to the gym, I was catcalled and whistled at 7 times. One car decided to pull over and follow me as I was walking, going about 5mph and making kissy noises out the window, holding up traffic. After about 30 seconds I told him to get lost and that I never wanted to see him again, so he could stop doing that already! Also, I was going to the gym, so I was wearing baggy shorts and a sweatshirt – nothing special.

street harassment

“I am NOT a piece of meat!”

Emphases by CASS.
Submitted 4/27/13 by Anonymous


Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault?
Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.

If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system:
Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip: Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
Posted in Maryland, Stalking, User submitted, Verbal Harassment | Tagged Catcalling, maryland, Stalking, street harassment, street harassment in DC | Leave a reply

Stalking & Leering on the Redline: “Metro needs to step up security on train cars”

Posted on April 17, 2013 by renee
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Location:  Metro: Redline to Glenmont
Time: Night (7:30pm-12am)

I got on at Gallery Place toward Glenmont. Just before Judiciary Square a I noticed a man staring at me with a very angry glare. I was very uncomfortable and I was questioning what was going on with him so I moved to what I thought was out of eye contact range. He managed to move a few seats down and continued to look at me as though he was angrier. He seemed to be mid-40′s, receding hairline. I tried not to make eye contact too long so that was all I could get.

At Union Station I changed cars. He was in the previous car but moved to the window to continue to glare at me FROM THE OTHER CAR. I moved down again. I got off at Rhode Island avenue, he got off too, but I jumped back on.

He did not sexually harass me but the anger and the intensity was clearly about intimidation. Please someone must demand that metro step up security on the cars. These are really sensitive situations and I doubt a phone number would have been useful, in fact I am certain that if I had stared at him any longer to get his description, I would have been in a particularly dangerous situation.

Emphases by CASS.
Submitted 4/12/13 by “AD”


Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault?
Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.

If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system:
Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip: Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
Posted in User submitted, WMATA, WMATA Response | Tagged leering, Metro, sexual harassment, Stalking, street harassments, WMATA | Leave a reply

Unsafe on my own street: “It’s ridiculous that I even have to worry about this.”

Posted on March 19, 2013 by renee
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Location: Georgia Avenue & Quincy Street NW (Petworth)
Time: Daytime (9:30am-3:30pm)

On a Sunday afternoon, I was on my way home from yoga. I’d realized that I’d left my keys inside my apartment (that I share with roommates who were home at the time, luckily).

After getting off Metro at the Petworth stop, I was walking up to my front door, texting my roommate to let me in, when a man on the corner whistled at me in a very cat call-y way.

Usually I don’t engage with these people, but this time I just snapped — I was flustered about my key situation, hot and tired from yoga, and enraged that I have to deal with this. As I walked past him, I turned up my middle finger. He immediately yelled back, “Asshole!” I didn’t respond and went inside.

What scares me, though, is I saw him on the same corner tonight as I came home from work. I’m worried that he might be staking me out for retaliation. My roommates and I have agreed that if we see him tomorrow night, we’re going to file a complaint. It’s ridiculous that I even have to worry about this.

Emphases by CASS.
Submitted on 3/18/13 by Anonymous

Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault?
Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.

If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system:
Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip: Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.

Posted in Petworth/Georgia Ave, User submitted | Tagged petworth, sexual harassment, sexual harassment in DC, Stalking, street harassment, street harassment in DC | Leave a reply

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