Location: 11th & P street (Logan Circle) Time: Daytime (9:30am-3:30pm)
I was walking back from school and there were two men stood on bus stop, one of them calls out: “Hey beauty, chica bonita (because I’m hispanic), beauty…” and I said to myself: It’s one more! I’ve had this kind of experience almost every day.
Emphases by CASS. Submitted 6/5/13 by “ARHH.”
I am NOT an exotic toy! I am a HUMAN BEING.
Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault? Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.
If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system: Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip:Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
If you need assistance in coping with public sexual harassment or assault, please contact the DC Rape Crisis Center (DCRCC) 24/7 crisis hotline at 202-333-RAPE (202-333-7279).
Location: Apartment Lobby, Silver Spring, Maryland Time: Night (7:30pm-12am)
You can compliment me by RESPECTING me!
I want to share an experience of non-Street Harassment — an example of how a man can compliment or greet a woman without being skeevy or offensive. I got home last night around 9:00 in the evening and I stopped in the lobby to get my mail. I don’t live in a great area, but most of the men in the building are unusually polite, especially when it comes to holding the door for me. I often feel bad when I’m afraid to say hello back to some of these otherwise perfectly polite men — too much exposure to street harassment seems to have made me kind of edgy.
As I entered the complex, one man held the first door as I was coming in, another got the second door for me and held it open. The second man looked right up at my eyes, and he spoke with a smile. “Hello.” I said hello back, and went to my mailbox. He was about to walk through the door, but then he stopped and turned to me. “You know, you always wear the cutest dresses.” I was very pleased and flattered by this compliment, so I thanked him and smiled. He went his way, I went mine. Gentlemen (and men) take note — there are ways to compliment a woman without harassing her on the street.
Thank you so much to this man for being able to get his thoughts across in a polite and respectful manner. This situation could have soured my whole day — instead it was a small bright end to an otherwise long Tuesday.
Emphases by CASS. Submitted 6/5/13 by “Meghan.”
Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault? Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.
If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system: Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip:Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
If you need assistance in coping with public sexual harassment or assault, please contact the DC Rape Crisis Center (DCRCC) 24/7 crisis hotline at 202-333-RAPE (202-333-7279).
Location: P Street NW and 14th (Logan Circle) Time: Morning Rush Hour (5am-9:30am)
In this instance, a panhandler who had called out to me before decided to follow me from his spot in front of the hardware store to my office (from P and 14th NW to Rhode Island and 14th NW), staying behind/beside me while asking for personal details like my name and occupation, and repeating things like, “I always thought you were beautiful, I know you’re the woman for me. I just want to talk to you. Don’t be afraid, I’d never hurt you!”
I’m very concerned about him following me in the future, and if he does, I would feel compelled to change my route to work.
Emphases by CASS. Submitted 6/5/13 by “LP.”
Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault? Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.
If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system: Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip:Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
If you need assistance in coping with public sexual harassment or assault, please contact the DC Rape Crisis Center (DCRCC) 24/7 crisis hotline at 202-333-RAPE (202-333-7279).
Location: 18th and M St NW (Farragut North/Dupont) Time: Daytime (9:30am-3:30pm)
I was catcalled yesterday (12:04pm) walking to the post office to mail a letter to my dad. I was walking towards the crosswalk on 18th and M st NW, and almost didn’t notice the bike messenger coming my way on the sidewalk. I hesitated for a moment, but he turned and went around me. I came a stop to wait for the ped-walk and he whistled at me as he biked behind me. My heart jumped and I froze, the blood rushed to my head.
It’s funny, because I prepare for this moment from the second I leave the office, but it always jolts me – I get that rush of adrenaline. I look at him as he biked down M towards Connecticut avenue, my heart still in my ears. He made eye contact and smirked at me.
The only thing I could force out of my mouth was “Catcalling is harassment!!”. The crosswalk had a large lunch crowd on both sides. Some stared at me, no one said anything. I marched across the crosswalk when the light changed and went inside the post office to mail my letter.
Emphases by CASS. Submitted 6/4/13 by “Dechanique.”
Do you have a personal experience with gender-based public sexual harassment or assault? Submit your story to help raise awareness about the pervasiveness and harmful effects of street harassment. All submissions are posted anonymously unless otherwise specified.
If you experience or have experienced sexual harassment on the DC Metro system: Whether the event is happening at the moment or occurred months ago, we strongly encourage you to report to Metro Transit Police (MTP): www.wmata.com/harassment or 202-962-2121. Reporting helps identify suspects as well as commons trends in harassment. Recommended tip:Program MTP’s number into your phone so you can easily reach them when needed.
If you need assistance in coping with public sexual harassment or assault, please contact the DC Rape Crisis Center (DCRCC) 24/7 crisis hotline at 202-333-RAPE (202-333-7279).
CASS Board member Jen Corey testifies on cab safety at DC Council
A lot of the harassment submissions we receive are incidents that took place on or around public transit and in taxis. For many of us, it can feel like a gauntlet trying to get from point A to point B. Your stories are our daily fuel to keep working to find new and creative solutions to make transportation safe and accessible for everyone, no matter what gender identity you put out to the world or no matter who you love. We take many different approaches to do so, including fostering a supportive online forum for sharing our experiences, collaborating with WMATA on its anti-sexual harassment campaign, educating policymakers, providing anti-harassment trainings and resources, and spreading our message through street art.
Last week, CASS Board Member and all-around anti-street harassmentbad a$$ Jen Coreytestified at the DC Council Public Oversight Roundtable on safety in taxicabs. The hearing was prompted by findings that the District of Columbia Taxicab Commission (DCTC) receives approximately 150 complaints per month, 80 percent of which are from women who feel threatened, harassed, or unsafe in taxicabs. The purpose of the hearing was to understand the processes by which the Commission evaluates, investigates, and resolves these complaints. Following opening testimony by the DC Taxicab Commissioner, Jen — who also boasts the title of Miss District of Columbia 2009 — shared several serious harassment experiences she’s had in or around cabs in DC, all of which has ultimately led her to no longer use DC taxicabs. Jen also discussed CASS’s work to bring the innovative RightRides program to DC to address the immediate need for safe and affordable late-night transportation while we continue to work towards the culture change needed to eradicate public sexual harassment and assault.
CASS Recommendations for Improving Taxi Safety in DC
Jen also shared some of CASS’s initial recommendations for improving taxi safety in the District, including:
More thorough background checks and driver screening processes;
Sexual harassment and assault prevention training for employees; and
Easier mechanisms for reporting issues and incidents.
CASS 2013 Survey Findings on Safety and Sexual Harassment in DC Taxis
72 percent of respondents use public transit late at night (12am or later) at least once a month, with nearly half (47 percent) using public transit late at night at least once a week.
The majority of respondents indicated that they feel safe only “some of the time” (43 percent), “hardly ever” (17 percent), or “never” (7 percent) while taking public transit alone, while with less than one-third indicating that they felt safe either “always” or “most of the time.”
Nearly 30 percent indicated they use taxis late at night at least once a week, and 50 percent indicate that they feel safe taking taxis late at night by themselves.
However, cost is often a barrier and over 40 percent responded that they “sometimes” or “often” walk or bike late at night because they cannot afford to take a taxi.
And, though sadly this may not come as a surprise to the many of us who frequently experience street harassment, survey respondents shared that they had experienced the following forms of sexual harassment and assault while walking, biking, riding public transportation, or taking taxis or car services late at night:
90 percent experienced at least one form of harassment or assault
8 percent experienced groping, public exposure/flashing and public masturbation
NOTE: Check out our PDF on our transit survey data for more information. Our survey and its findings are part of our continued effort to keep a finger on the pulse of transit safety concerns in DC and help bring safer transit options like RightRides to DC. Be sure to sign up for our newsletter for more updates as we continue this work. We thank you for your support and send a special thanks to all the folks who answered our survey and are helping us create a safer DC!